Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. – Hebrews 13:4-5
God is the same from the beginning. The Old Testament and New Testament both show us who God is and what God expects from us. Jesus says he came to fulfill the Old Testament not replace it.
God made man and woman each for a very specific purpose. God could have reproduced us in many different ways. God chose to use the intimacy of sex between a man and woman as His way to create more physical bodies for which God can add more souls made in His image.
Our main purpose in life is not to see how much money we can make or how well we can please ourselves. God created us to worship and fellowship with Him. Our life is about Him, not us. We tend to make money, sex and other areas about our desires and not about God. As a Christian, refocus your desire to serve God and not self-desires.
Sex does not have to be pleasurable but God intended for it to be pleasurable to bond a husband and wife together. God wants men and women to desire each other and feel the special bond created with intimacy. In Genesis God tells us his new plan after the fall of Adam and Eve. God says the woman will desire her husband and the husband shall rule over her. Biblically, a woman is to desire her husband.
Sex serves two purposes, one to recreate physical life for God to place spirit/souls and the other to provide bond between a husband and wife. Any other deviation of sex can be a sin and goes against Gods plan.
Sex in not a dirty word or thing. Some people have made sex evil in their eyes and passed that on to their children and others they influence. Sex is a beautiful thing designed by God and should be enjoyed in a proper way like God intended. We should all evaluate our thoughts and actions to ensure we are following Gods’ design for sex in our lives.